Cheating. This is something I never understood. Why cheat? Why not just get out of the relationship? I had a boyfriend who cheated on me and when I confronted him, he lied about it. This makes absolutely no sense to me, especially if you are not married. There is nothing at stake. Just break up with the person. If you are in a marriage and feel the need to cheat, talk about it before doing it. Discuss your feelings about why you want to cheat or get to a therapist. If my Boston boyfriend had come to me and told me that he wanted to be with another woman, it would hurt, however, we could then examine why he felt this way.

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When a woman hears that she is “being too sensitive” this can go either way. If you are saying this to a woman who has come into her power, watch out. This will only anger her and rightfully so. If you are saying this to a woman who has not yet developed into her power, she will re-coil. Either way, telling a woman she is too sensitive is an attempt to invalidate the very core of her being. I personally do not believe that a person can be “too sensitive.” Everyone feels emotion at a different level; it is how you express that emotion is the important element. The other expression I would not use with a woman is “you are such a bitch.” You will have the same reaction as previously stated. When a woman is acting in a certain way, angry or any other, ask her calmly, “what are you feeling? Are you okay?” You might be in the heat of an argument, but if you can muster up enough inner calmness and gently ask what she is feeling this could diffuse the situation. Often times our hurt comes out in anger and we just need for you to ask us what is really going on.

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I am saving the big one for last and this probably goes for both men and women, however I hear this more from women. Do NOT lie to us or cheat on us! Can I say that again? Do not lie or cheat on us! Let’s begin with lying. Most men lie to women because they are afraid of their reaction if they tell the truth. Simply stating, “I’m afraid to tell you the truth because I’m scared of your reaction” will be useful. That very statement tells a woman a lot. It helps us to prepare and understand that if we don’t want to alienate you from future uncomfortable situations that we might want listen to what you have to say more calmly. This does not mean that we will not be upset given the degree of what you have to share with us, however it will help for us to be aware. Women hate being lied to and would much rather know the truth. If you think you are saving a woman by telling her a lie, this is just the opposite. We are much stronger and tougher than you think.

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Here’s the deal, although Boston women are sensitive, feminine beings, we are extraordinarily powerful beings. By nature, women can handle much more emotional pain and trauma than men. This has been proven time and time again. Not only are our bodies built incredibly strong to bear children and sustain them, but the very core of our emotional being is stunningly powerful. I am so often in awe watching Boston women navigate through life’s most difficult challenges where most men crumble and check out.

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I suppose all of this is moot because if someone wants to cheat, they probably have very little consciousness at the moment to talk about it. The best advice? Just don’t do it!! It’s bad karma. That’s it for this week. Although I did not cover all there is to understanding women, these are just the things that come to mind. Feel free to add some of your own thoughts!

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